In his book Solve for Happy, Mo Gawdat discusses the reasons behind people’s happiness or discontent, contentment or dissatisfaction, calmness or frustration in any given circumstance.Against the backdrop of a universe whose natural state is entropy and chaos he believes that the primary factor is how we set our life expectations, driven in part by the illusion of Fan.
When our expectations aren’t in line with reality, we experience a lot of resentment, disappointment, and frustration, as illustrated by the variety of expectations we have regarding football.After the emphatic 6-2 victory over Iran and the exuberant 3-0 victory over Wales, people have high expectations for England’s performance now that the World Cup is fully underway.
At the time encounters seldom decide to associate with our levelheadedness .
So the balmy US match is presently simply an abnormality.Every football fan has expectations for the game and each other, and it is abundantly clear that football occupies a special place in people’s lives.Fans have the right to express their opinions and expectations for their national team or local club in exchange for time and money.
As the emotional immediacy of results can conflict with the rational reality of a long-term commitment, we have witnessed the paradox of expectations.
On matchday, the focus is on the immediate outcome, but in the long run, there is an unchanging bond between fans .
Since the start of the World Cup, Harry Kane has received the most abuse on Twitter from England players. According to the study, I do not anticipate us winning every match, especially in our first season back in League Two.We are aware that football is a game with small margins, with wins when you play poorly, losses when you play well, and everything in between.
According to Gawdat, we do have control over how we set our expectations and react to events, even though we cannot control all of them.Football could be the place where you go to build relationships and imagine and make real what a happier life looks like through connections, rather than the place where you go to express your anger at life whenever you get the chance.
I do go for the best fish and chips in the world, to be with my brothers and friends, and to join the growing community of Grimsby fans who support the club’s values, love the town, and are committed to the journey even when we lose a few games.While the outcome may influence our moods, our souls will be sustained by long-term advancements and relationships.